take your time, girl!

"before you know yourself and know what you want, you'll have a hard time finding the right man".

that's what i just read in a book. the author said, the average age a person has finally finds herself and knows what she wants.. is about 28. WOW! that explains why there are many single women who's above 28 nowadays!

i think the most interesting part of the book is when the author told me to write "TEN THINGS YOU WANT IN A GUY" and "TEN THING YOU DON"T WANT IN A GUY". he said the list will help me spot the right man, without having to waste lots of time. with these list in mind, everytime i met a guy or going on a date with someone, i could just make a check list... hahhaha.

i don't know this would really work or not... but it's fun to do. wanna try?

talking about finding myself and knowing what i want...i'm proudly say that i have =) even though it just happened now, when i'm 30. somehow i am so comfortable with myself now, i know what to do, and enjoy my life every day. i have so many things in mind that i wanna do so many things! i feel like a rose bud that has just started to bloom... like a cocoon that has just metamorphosied into a beautiful butterly =P i've never enjoyed my life as much as now! and i am still going for more...

there are many stars to shoot, mountains to conquer, and i don't regret that i haven't been married. if i had, i might not experience what i have now.

for those single gals out there, especially the ones that have reached their 30s... don't feel bad about yourselves. don't ever lower your standard and say yes to any man that comes along. living in a terrible marriage is muchmuchmuch worse than being a single for rest of your life! YOU DESERVE to marry the man of your dream, who you really like, adore, and love. know what is the enemy of 'best'? it's the 'good'. sometimes women got so worry, they thought: "oh, this man seems nice, he's a good guy. oke, i'll marry him." then they miss the best one... DO NOT SETTLE FOR JUST A GOOD GUY, AIM FOR THE BEST ONE! someone you will not regret to spend the rest of your life with.

best one doesn't mean perfect, though. nobody's perfect. best one means this guy is really who you love, and you become a better person when you're with him, and so does he.

girlfriends, whatever age you are now, you are SPECIAL. you are NOT UNWANTED. you DESERVE the best. you CAN ENJOY your life. don't let others pressure you, it's your life, not theirs. it's the matter of time... i believe there's GOD near to us who will answer when we call...

talking about biological clock, i know some women who still gave birth at their 40s, even 90! you know, when you have faith, anything is possible ^_^